Quote of the Day: May you grow up to be righteous, may you grow up to be true, may you always know the truth, and see the lights surrounding you, may you always be courageous, stand upright and be strong; and, may you stay forever young.” ~ Bob Dylan
This has been a very emotional week. My best friends from childhood will be gathering in my hometown, celebrating 30 years from our graduation from high school. First of all, 30 years from ANYTHING is emotional; but, high school is another story. I have always believed in the saying “make new friends, but, keep the old ~ one is silver and the other is gold” and I now instill this same philosophy in my child.
It is such an important philosophy for me to hold close, because there have been so many chapters in my life. I sometimes wonder if the small child will have such a big book, with so many chapters to lug around. Perhaps her own novel will be more concise, less dramatic and; therefore, require fewer chapters. My intuition tells me it will be the latter. Whatever her story may be, I will tell her this: “friends will come and they will go; however, the impact of the lessons and gifts they bring will stay with you forever.” As I write my blog, I generally try to parallel my daughter’s life and journey with my own. Whether that is good or bad, it always brings the same resolution; that no matter how much life changes, it really does remain the same (with much better technology 🙂 ). Thank you, Steve Jobs ~ may you rest in peace!
Whether it is the result of the many chapters of my life, the moves from coast to coast or the distance I live from my childhood home, I have always had this idea that I would never reconnect with my friends from childhood. Well, that idea went completely out the window when Zuckerberg came to town with his baby, Facebook. Initially, I thought Facebook was silly and trite; but, then I succumbed to the idea and, BOOM, Kathy appeared. We saw each other’s names and “accepted” a friendship (maybe there should be a “re-accept” button). I said, “come to California” and she said “okay”. We hadn’t seen or spoken to each other in over 30 years. I pulled up to the curb at SFO and we were both crying before I even got out of the car. We talked for 5 days straight, remembering idiosyncrasies that were long forgotten. Every time I laughed, she cried, because it was a memory so profound within her ~ with that, I cried because I remembered that laugh from my childhood. A laugh that only she could resonate.
So I dedicate this week’s blog to my 8th grade best friend forever, Kathy, and the Milford High School Class of 1981. It’s been a joy reconnecting with you all. May we find some other old friends along the way, may we find joy in our own personal journeys; but, most of all may we stay forever young in our hearts and in our souls. I love you all and thank you for my childhood. I wish this wonderful kind of childhood for my daughter and all her friends on their journey to 2020! Godspeed!